Huddah Monroe’s Bold Advice: Why Lazy Men Are a Red Flag for Women

In a world where social media opinions often shape our views on relationships, Kenyan socialite Huddah Monroe has made a splash with her candid advice for women seeking love.

Known for her unapologetic stance on personal empowerment, Monroe recently warned women against marrying men who lack ambition and drive, dubbing lazy men as “crazy” and their minds as the “devil’s workshop.”

Speaking candidly on her social media platforms, Huddah emphasized the importance of marrying a man who is not only hardworking but also proactive in building a future.

“Marry the man you want as long as he is not lazy,” she declared, urging young women to carefully consider their potential partners’ work ethic and drive before making a lifelong commitment.

Her words struck a chord with many, particularly as she revealed an interesting irony in the advice often shared by online married women.

According to Monroe, there is a common but questionable trend of married women advising younger women to “marry rich men” — yet these same women are often married to men who are far from wealthy.

“A lot of online married women who tell you to marry rich men are married to broke men. That math always fails to math,” Monroe remarked, pointing out the hypocrisy in such advice.

For Monroe, the underlying message was clear: wealth alone is not the true measure of a man’s value.

Instead, it’s his work ethic, determination, and willingness to strive for more that matters most. She warned that a man who lacks ambition is not just a financial risk but a long-term emotional and psychological burden.

The conversation stirred a wider discussion on social media, with women and men alike chiming in with their opinions.

Some applauded Monroe’s honesty, while others argued that love and partnership should transcend financial status.

Nevertheless, Monroe’s words serve as a reminder that true partnership is built on shared values, ambition, and mutual respect — qualities far more important than a man’s bank balance.

While the debate continues, Huddah Monroe’s message is clear: choose wisely, and never settle for less than someone who is actively striving to better themselves and build a solid future. Lazy men, she insists, are simply not worth the risk.